
The den was toasty, as there
was a fire roaring in the fireplace. The antiquated, artificial tree
with the exposed, 2 foot metal pole trunk was aglow with multi-colored
fairy lights and trimmed with homemade angel ornaments and thick bunches of
silver tinsel. Mrs. Moss and I were in the kitchen preparing finger foods
and drinks for our loved ones.
As I stood at the sink washing
out Katherine’s sippy cup, I noticed a barge traveling up the icy Ohio
River. Mrs. Moss walked over to me and handed me a soda to fill Katherine’s
cup. She paused next to me and joined me looking out the window.
"Isn’t George wonderful, Dani..." she asked rhetorically in her gravelly, sophisticated voice.
"Isn’t George wonderful, Dani..." she asked rhetorically in her gravelly, sophisticated voice.
I smiled in total agreement…
needing no further explanation.
She turned toward the window,
pointed, and continued, “He brought me that tree all the way down here from our
house for the holidays.”
My smile grew bigger. I sat
down Katherine’s cup and leaned over and kissed her cheek. Just as Alzheimer’s
was robbing her of her mind, God continued to fill her sweet heart to
overflowing.
She continued, "I
don't really like being here for the holidays, but George said it isn't
time to go home just yet. I am just so happy you, John, and the ‘Sugarplum’
are here...”
We took the refreshments into
the den, toasted the holiday, and prepared to leave for dinner. (I had made
reservations at Hunan’s, our local Chinese bistro.)
When we arrived the hostess escorted
us to our table. Mr. Moss took Mrs. Moss' coat, and John took Katherine’s and
mine. As the two made their way over to hang our coats, we three girls took our
seats. The restaurant was rather crowded with many familiar faces- though Mrs.
Moss didn't seem to notice. Anna, the restaurant owner, brought Mr. Moss' black
coffee with a straw to the table. She asked if we would be having "the
regular". We all smiled and nodded, yes. Anna, returned with
the rest of our drinks and let us know our soup was on its way.
As I looked around, I noticed a group of people several tables over from ours was preparing to leave. They donned their coats and headed towards our table. The foursome happened to be a few of our fellow church parishioners. After Mr. Moss stood and greeted them with a warm, southern, gentleman's, How do you do?, we all arose as well and exchanged hugs, hand-shakes, and Merry Christmas wishes.
As the couples walked away from our table, we returned to our seats. Mrs. Moss looked toward Mr. Moss and said, "George, I can't believe how many people are down here from home.”
As I looked around, I noticed a group of people several tables over from ours was preparing to leave. They donned their coats and headed towards our table. The foursome happened to be a few of our fellow church parishioners. After Mr. Moss stood and greeted them with a warm, southern, gentleman's, How do you do?, we all arose as well and exchanged hugs, hand-shakes, and Merry Christmas wishes.
As the couples walked away from our table, we returned to our seats. Mrs. Moss looked toward Mr. Moss and said, "George, I can't believe how many people are down here from home.”
“Mommie," Mr. Moss was
having a terrible time understanding and accepting Mrs. Moss' Alzheimer's, “where
do you think you are?"
(to be continued...)
love and God's blessings,
dani xx
ps you will find earlier entries in ascending order on my side bar entitled, "our love story":)
15 comments:
I've got goosebumps now...
L,
Tania
Mrs. Moss's dementia just breaks my heart.
Such a cruel disease.
love 'n' hugs to you,
l,
Amanda x
Oh Dani ~ this post has made me feel so sad for you ~ and the Mosses ~ it is so hard when things like that happen!
love and big hugs my friend XXXXX
Dani...sending thoughts and love, dementia is so very cruel. You have written such a moving piece hun. :(
M x
You had an amazing relationship with the Mosses. I love your stories/memories!
Cheri
This made my heart sink! Alzheimer's is such a terrible disease! the relationship you had with Mosses was truly very special! Sending lots of love & big Hugs my friend :)))
love,
t. xxxxxx
Dear Dani, Your latest, really took me back to that confusing time. I sat & thought about it for a long while, and then I began remembering how George began to accept it as "normal." They were "troopers" ,the way they always adjusted to their circumstances. That was one of the things that I respected so much about them: ) xo, m
My wife's grandma has dementia. She knows who we are and remembers us. So, we are fortunate on that end. But her short term memory is not good. The dementia started to really kick in after her husband died two years ago. She often comments that "when grandpa died he took part of me with him." Your story reminds me of this.
I don't know why this makes me cry....I DON'T KNOW THE MOSS'S, but you've made me give them a place in my heart. God Love Her Mrs. Moss.....I hope she was happy in "Florida"
*sob*
Beautiful Dani, Beautiful
You are a really beautiful writer Dani. I love to read about the Moss' too. I think you should think about making a book about them.
Yes you are a great writer.
Merry Xmas Dani
hope you have a lovely day
L,
Kristen
Dani, I want you to know that the whole time I was writing my newest post on my dear friend Phyllis that I had you and your Mrs Moss in mind. I wish I was as good as you at visiting and enjoying the time you had left with those beautiful people. I really do intend to use you as an example to see Pyllis much more often.
When I grow up I hope I can be as good as you are. (Smile)
Dani, What a great writer you are. You draw us all into your story with such awe and make it all come alive especially the very sad parts like today's piece. I Have heard that having a loved one with dementure is like watching them fading away right before your eyes. How very very sad. They both sound like very special people and you were so very lucky to have them in your life.
Guess what Dani? Elise shared a few of your Reese's Peanut Butter Cups. Oh my goodness, there are just too delicious. Yumooo.
I wish you, John, Katherine and Maggie a very joyous and loving Christmas.
Love and hugs
Lucy XXXXOOOO
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